No One Has to Get It
NOT EVEN YOU.
You’re probably thinking, hold up wait a minute, of course I want to know what I’m doing!
Hang with me.
What you do next in your life’s direction, it’s your decision. What muddies the water on what you choose are the stories you tell yourself about your choice. When you come from a place of grounded self-connection, it takes practice, the choices you make then become in alignment with where you’re feeling lead next.
Awesome feeling if you ask me!
Here’s where there can be a hiccup. If there’s something that lights you up about doing or pursuing and you immediately discount the desire based on what you ‘should’ (**I’ll just go ahead and throw up right here with that word**) want or what your partner, friends, or family think would be the best for you.
They don’t know.
You know.
And sometimes you do know but you don’t know why. And that’s okay too!
I’m also a Mani-Gen Enne 7 (still learning more about that too) that doesn’t need a lot of details to move forward. So I acknowledge that all of us are different and the thought of that alone in a matter of these seconds reading this sentence may make you’re skin crawl if you’re not that way. No fret.
The point is, that you can’t know every possible outcome to every potential scenario before you make a decision. You decide. act, and then figure it out from there! Allowing yourself the space and permission to learn as you go, make mistakes along the way, and let it be a fun way to deepening your personal growth.
The goal here is that whatever you’re deciding it’s from a place that’s connected from within!
Not one that’s influenced by other people’s views, opinions, or ideas about ‘what’s right’ or ‘right’ for you. That you’re deciding your next steps based on where you are feeling lead to next.
Look, I know in this moment you could also be reading that last sentence saying, “yeah well easy for you to say!” Don’t worry, I’ve done my own cord cutting trust me. And there are still more lying under the surface and in the crevasses of my own being - that’s why I’m doing the work to uncover and cut them.
And no way is it easy!
There’s so much that gets ruffled when we even think about telling our family we’re going to switch careers to something polar opposite. Or when we set our first boundary with a spouse that triggers something within them that gets reactive. Or when we start to question our value and worth as a woman because we don’t want kids. Oh how about when we want to change and all the ‘who am I now’ without it stuff comes up?!
This is deep stuff and this is also what’s true about the growth process. And if you really want to transform your life into something that’s yours, that’s where you gotta go. Not every time, but every time there’s something that’s holding you back - it’s usually not a surface level thing.
I go there daily, learning to let myself also relax into what I’ve already grown through. Just like anything everything in life, personal transformational growth is cyclical.
And it’s sure as balls worth it all!
Cheers to your next level personal growth adventure, I’m with ya sister!
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